Kanyi Okeke
This is what you get these days when ladies only love men by what they can see; no true love again!
A big girl identified as Nkechi who hailed from Onitsha, Anambra State but settled in Asaba with her parents after graduation while searching for employment, got involved in Facebook Love at the centre where she was learning Computer.
Somehow she met a rich young man online, a Nigerian. The man decided to disguised himself as a ‘cripple’ to her whenever he arrive Nigeria, but he is actually a lawyer trained in the United Kingdom…
It was gathered that after series of chats, the ‘cripple’ asked for her hand in marriage and Nkechi immediately accepted, not knowing that the man will disguise as a cripple to test her.
After their relationship which lasted about seven months online, the young lawyer, who was identified as Henry (surname withheld), returned to Nigeria on a wheelchair. Nkechi, accompanied by her friend, went to the airport to welcome him, but was shocked to see him on a wheelchair and when he begged her to marry him, she refused.
According to reports, Nkechi continued to refuse his proposal, despite his pleas and a visit to her house. She also did not listen to her friend. Her friend, identified as Onyinye, a fashion boutique owner, living somewhere around Infant Jesus area of Asaba, was shocked at her friend’s decision after pleading with her to reconsider her “wheel chair” lover, but Nkechi refused.
Unfortunately for Nkechi, her friend Onyinye started feeling pity for Henry’s condition, not knowing that the man is not actually a cripple. Onyinye thus accepted to marry Henry since Nkechi has turned him down. Consequently, Henry went ahead to finalise wedding plans with Onyinye. They had the traditional marriage and white wedding last weekend in Asaba.
However, at the wedding reception, Henry got off his wheelchair to the amazement of all and told everyone present that
he was never a ‘cripple,’ but had to disguise himself because he was hoping to get married to a Nigerian lady who would have genuine love for him, irrespective of his “condition”.
It was jubilation all the way and people started praising Onyinye for being a virtuous woman.When the news got to Nkechi to her lover was actually not a cripple but just testing her, she collapsed.
Disillusioned 30-year-old Nkechi, a graduate of Micro-biology later committed suicide due to the shame that her finacee, who she met on Facebook, had gotten married to her best friend.In her suicie note, Nkechi wrote:
“I have gone to rest as I cannot stand the situation after the house I built has collapsed. This is a lesson for single ladies; never reject any suitor, so that you don’t end up dead.”
The Police in Delta State confirmed Nkechi’s unfortunate action, her parents are said to be in shock.
Rubbish! He is a deceitful man. He was talking to Nkechi for 7 months and not at any point did he disclose that he is a 'cripple'. And instead shocks her with something like that at the airport.
He is not a cripple does not mean he is a good man or would not be a wife beater or a liar. If he was decent man, he wouldn't lie with something like disability.
Your right…he should have subtly told her months into their phone relationship that his crippled and watch her reaction. It's just like expecting to see a hunk and then your greeted with a wheel chair Mbanu!
Also that girl that ended uo marrying him must have done cos of the man's money.
U guys are crazy..told her what? If he had come to see her in nigeria her and had an accident that crippled him that is how she would have walked away. Abegeeee! May her Soul rest in peace but ladies, Love is more than wealth, status, health- Love is God and God is pure so let ur love be pure
Hmmm…..and she thinks killing herself solves the problem? Straight to hell. Lesson for babes!!
I quite agree with you. It's not by force to marry a cripple. My friend said something…he cant marry a cripple but would live with one if he has already married her and then something happens and she becomes crippled.
Sincerely that dude is cray! There are better ways to test a girl. Why not act wretched?
The heart of man is continually wicked. I would never have killed myself over that man, and yes I would not marry a cripple or wish it on anyone i know. It doesn't mean I have no love in my heart, but most people will not choose tht burden. @Kanyi, the man is really crazy. He wasn't worth anyone killing themselves over. At all
She may still av said no if he acted wretched! Sentiments have a way of making people lose valuables. Till people start seeing beyond d surface, stuffs like this will always happen.
Your right. I just believe both of them are not meant to be together.
Cos if they were, Nothing would stop them from being together.
Both of them are very stupid, d girl for killing herself, and d man for been such a liar, he expect to lie his way through to marriage.And even d girl dat married him, did dat cos of things she can gain from him.it was obvious dat his a wealthy cripple as he pretended,and some girls mite not care bout his condition as long as she gets her hands on his money.So he ended up marrying a girl wit motives too.Rubbish
Don't mind the yeye man. is it be acting like a cripple that you'll find love?
I can as well marry the rich cripple man and have access to his money. am at an advantage cos I have both legs and can make good use of his money.
smh st his stupidity.
The girl is even more stupid for killing herself.
I Like what the man did. Wait a minute, had it been that after 10 years of marriage, the man had car accident and became a cripple, so the lady will abandon him??? Let's face the truth.
How is he sure onyinye wouldn't abandon him later in future if sumtin lik dt happens n its possible she accepted cos she saw him as a source of wealth. Luk let's not judge pepul cos we don't know where d shoe hurts
That oyinye is a backstabbing friend. Also a desperate girl. What nonsense pity. She was just an opportunist. The man should be careful with her. If you investugate oyinye will be a hungry girl probably ugly thay can do anything for money. Besides who told the man that shje wasn't planning on abandoning him once they relocated to the uk.
Tricks like the one mr man playes are just stupid nowadays.
And the suycide girl is very stypid for killing herself.
Also, this story seems fake.