I Won’t Allow My Sister To Marry A Man Doing POS – BLord [Video]

Nigerian businessman BLord has shared his views on marriage and why he believes financial stability is important before starting a family.

During an interview at his home, BLord spoke about the type of man he would want his sister to marry.

He said he would never approve of a man who is not financially secure because marriage brings serious responsibilities.

Using the Point of Sale (POS) business as an example, BLord explained that he would not allow his sister to marry someone who only runs a POS business.

He added that he also would not have wanted his sister to marry a man who was in the same financial position he was in before he got married.

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“You can’t be doing POS and say you want to come and marry my sister. I wouldn’t even allow. I can’t. I won’t allow that.

“I wouldn’t even allow my sister to marry somebody that was in my shoe before I got married,” he said.

According to him, men should focus on building their careers and becoming financially stable before thinking about marriage.

He said raising a family requires money for important needs such as children’s education and other long-term expenses.

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Speaking further, BLord said there is no fixed formula for a successful marriage because every relationship is different.

“It also depends on who she accepts. It’s your choice. My wife accepted. It was her choice. And today the choice was not wrong.

“But some people might make a similar choice and the choice would be wrong.

“You might marry a broke man, and when he gets rich, he will abandon you.

“There is no curriculum to marriage. Everything just happens,” he said.

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BLord also encouraged men to improve their financial situation before getting married.

He said, “Try to be up and doing before you get married because you have school fees to pay.”

To support his point, he revealed that he currently pays school fees for several children through scholarship programs, even though their fathers are still alive.

Blord said, “I have so many people on my scholarship. It’s not supposed to be so.

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“I’m paying school fees for another man. Paying their school fees and their father is alive and I’m paying school fees for them.”

Offering advice to women, BLord urged them to carefully consider the character of the man they intend to marry.

“If you as a lady look at a man and say, ‘God, I don’t want my unborn children to be like this man,’ then I don’t think you should marry that man.

“The man you want to marry, if you cannot wish your children to be like him, don’t marry them,” he said.

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Watch the video below:

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