'How Do I Tell My Husband That He's Not The Father Of Our Child'

I need to find an easy way of telling my husband that I am in love with another man and that our baby boy is not his child. I am 38 and have been with my partner for 10 years. I met a man sometime ago.

We chat very often and one day he suggested we go for a drink. I told my partner I had a meeting. There have been lots of “meetings” since.

We make love in his car every week. I had been starved of love for years. When I started the fling it was just for the sex. I thought about it all day.

Then I fell pregnant. My partner just assumed the child was his and I didn’t want to destroy him by telling him different but I am 100 per cent certain our eight-month-old son is my lover’s child. He knows the baby is his and dotes on him.

We have fallen in love and are now planning on being together. My lover is going to tell his wife soon.

I know it will tear my partner’s heart apart to find out I am in love with another man and want to be with him, and that he will lose his little boy.

I never meant to hurt him but I need to find an easy way of breaking the news.

Anonymous says:
March 22, 2013 at 7:25 pm
Start with Honey we need to talk.
Anonymous says:
March 23, 2013 at 11:24 am
U must be very wicked!
Anonymous says:
July 25, 2013 at 4:39 pm
No way u tell him will be easy but the sooner u tell him the less attached to the baby he will be just sit him down very soon and tell him everything don't just tell him part of it tell him everything and u will feel way better. honestly before all of this happened there is way better ways to recieve that loveu were looking for now all there is left to do is clean up your mess