A Nigerian writer and feminist, identified as Ozzy Etomi believes wholeheartedly that men who cry at their weddings have psycho tendencies.
She made the statement while reacting to a tweet on men’s preference to cry over losses at football matches rather than at their weddings.
According to Ozzy Etomi, there is nothing romantic about a man’s show of emotion during their wedding. She wrote:
“I have a theory about men who cry at their weddings. There’s nothing intellectual about the theory. I just think they have the tendency to be psychos. Don’t ask me why, I don’t know, but I believe it wholeheartedly.” She wrote.
See the post below:
There's nothing intellectual about the theory. I just think they have the tendency to be psychos. Don't ask me why, I don't know, but I believe it wholeheartedly.
— Ozzy Etomi (@ozzyetomi) May 11, 2019
Much to the surprise of many social media users, there were a few people who agreed with her theory even though none of them gave reasons for their views. Many others, however, disagreed as they didn’t seem to understand her reasons for such an odd conclusion.
I was telling someone something along these lines a few weeks back and there were judging me. I feel seen.
— Wole (@Kingwole) May 11, 2019
But I still some are that emotional to throw out their emotions. I was emptiest my wedding because my parents are not alive to witness my day and also happy I was getting married to my wife
— olumagin thomas (@thomas_olumagin) May 11, 2019
I hope we can keep this same energy for women crying? Since it’s not human to show emotion for men
— n (@miguelsylars) May 12, 2019
Omg me too. I do not trust them at all. Like what's do surprising or heart wrenching that you cry?
— Koyona Duke (@totallykay1) May 11, 2019
you’re definitely right . had a guy cry after argument ( at the time i was v touched) he turned out to be the worst of the bunch.
— Thando (@lulekeluv) May 11, 2019
In all of this. I just realized it's a sin for guy to cry.
Jeez!
How did we get here?
Y'all scream about men NOT showing emotions and how it's okay for a man to cry and at the same time you turn around to call the ones that show that emotion insane?
I'm shook!
— Prospilo (@Prospilowoke) May 11, 2019
You don't have a reason, but you have a theory, so how did you come about the theory then. Some people just renewed their contracts in madness. And their followers will gullibly follow them.. Awon oni theory without hypothesis.. ?♂️?♂️
— Alaaga gbogbo Eko (@sunday_17) May 11, 2019
??? Y’all don’t want men to have deep feelings? Really? Or to own these feelings? You want them to suppress them because ‘man’? Nah
— MsKent (@keiskwerd) May 11, 2019
Man no cry, they said it's "masculine patriarchy"
Man cries, they say he's a psychopath.
Men will never win this war. That's why we are not fighting in it
— Victor Terhemba (@VictorTerhemba) May 11, 2019
So after spending millions in cooking food for strangers to eat in my wedding day you will now ask me not to cry so that I won't be seen as a psycho.
— Man of your Dream (@itookno) May 12, 2019