Uti Nwachukwu Says Being Sexually Committed To One Person For Life Makes One Sad

Former Big Brother Africa winner, Uti Nwachukwu has shared his thoughts about monogamous relationships, saying it is almost impossible to stay faithful to one’s partner forever.

In series of post shared on his Twitter page, Nwachukwu said anybody that leaves a relationship on the grounds of cheating do not have any business with marriage.

He said that the ideal of falling in love with one person doesn’t make any sense to him because most long term monogamous relationships are pretentious, hypocritical and sad.

The reality star advised his fans to reconsider their reasons for walking out of a relationship as he shared vital keys that helps in staying in lasting relationship.

He wrote: “We are so obsessed with relationships yet we have refused to accept the inconvenient truths about em. If acute (not chronic) cheating is the reason you leave your relationship, then you have no business being in one in the first place not to talk of marrying!

“As long as you have a partner that is kind to u, provides for u, spends adequate time with u/does not Neglect u emotionally&physically- Then what else do u really want?

“Truth is, it is EXTREMELY hard for humans to be sexually committed to ONE human for the rest of their Lives!

“Let’s be real and think about it. So You are expected to be physically intimate with one person for the rest of your life? (Even if you marry in your 20s?) Lol.

“ANALOGY – Starch and Banga is super tasty and ur favourite but there are days you wake up craving king prawns with special fried rice.

“FYI,if banga is forcd down ur throat, u might end up resenting banga for a LONG TIME.

“I feel the needless pressure of monogamy has/is still destroying relationships. NOT TO SAY IT DOESNT WORK O! But most LONG TERM monogamous relationshps are pretentious, hypocritical and sad. YET they are the ones quick to judge and pressure others living freely.

“This is a real non judgemental conversation EVERYONE should have with themselves and their intending partners so u don’t lead anyone into depression via deceit.

“KNOW URSELF NO BE CUSS. WHO DE CRY DE SEE ROAD.

“Whether u are Female or Male, Ur Preferences are Ur Preferences (as long as its not an addiction) Let’s not talk about Solomon’s Wives&Concubines cos we know when we add religion, the conversation becomes closed and heated. Just do U and be real with UR expectations.”

 

KanyiDaily recalls that Uti Nwachukwu had also expressed doubt about the popular belief among Nigerians that someone can steal their destinies.